The following brief description of children’s life will help
you to understand the situation here.
Vincent
Vincent lost his mother and father. They remained with no one
to help except one member of the extended family, who opted to take
care of him and 3 of his brothers and 2 sisters at Homa Bay
Town. And because the relative is an alcoholic, he was unable
to provide the children with food, clothes and other essentials in
life. Vincent was in Std. V then, because of frustration,
hunger and nakedness and because he was sometimes thrown out of the
house when the man came in with women, Vincent ended up in the
streets. We had to take him in, like other children, even
though we didn’t have a sheltered home for them to
sleep. They sleep on the church floor. Would you give him a
home?
Evans
Evans ended up in the streets because his parents got
separated. Since then he has only seen his mother once, but
she refused to talk with him. She had turned to
prostitution. Evans has never met his father.
Dan, Erick, Emily and Mzee are orphans. They lost all
their parents. They have no home, because the extended family
had divided their parent’s property including utensils, and
the grass thatched house their parents once owned collapsed.
They are aged 13,11,9 and 5 respectively. Will you give them
home? Will you give them hope by providing a home for
them? The centre has accepted them. Please help and
give them hope. Your donation will bring a change in their
lives will give them home, education, cloths and medical care and
others.
As I write to you now, there’s a young girl aged 10 who is
still suffering from burns. The relative she stays with
burned her hands, accusing her of stealing food from the
kitchen. She probably did this because of hunger. – few
cares would you care? There are many cases of child abuses
rape labour etc you can make a big difference in their lives.
All children equal before God boy child and girl child the
same
The Boy Child:
Traditionally in Africa especially among the Luo’s the Boy
child is highly honoured and respected, in fact if you don’t
have one then you are not regarded as a person or a man. Most
men chase their wives away – (divorce) because they
don’t have boys. People do consult witchdoctors, in
case they don’t give birth to a boy. This was even a
problem in the Old Testament with Abraham. He reasoned with
God until God answered him. I don’t want to prove the
importance of Boy child but first to explain my point.
The boy child is important only if he is born within the
wedlock. But in case he is born outside the wedlock in most
cases they are killed, or rendered useless by magic powers.
Most men would not accept marrying women who are already with boy
child. Such children may end in frustration and death.
Men perform rituals to kill the children whom they didn’t
father especially the boy child. In case of death of the
father and the mother is remarried again the stepfather would not
receive the boy child easily. This makes life very hard for
the male children and in many cases they run into streets, some
rituals turn them insane and useless, they later became sexual
cleanser for dead people they are being used to perform rituals
with the dead in case of difficulties. In case a woman dies
before she is remarried or inherited. The boy child is
endangered. They need homes of refuge – please help
them get shelter & education.
The Girl Child
The Girl child was easily accepted anywhere and even to day, every
body likes the girl child. But the problem is that to day
they are being misused first they have been and are being denied
education. Some turn into commercial sex workers earlier
because of frustration or forced (Marriages) They too need refuge
and turn into commercial sex workers earlier because of frustration
or forced (marriages) They too need refuge and most important
education. Some are being forced into early marriage,
especially if she’s an orphan or parents poor. Children
are endangered in some circumstances.
For education is power, life, light, etc. give them education.
More on the Boy child and Girl child next time.